Amy Sherald

amy sheraldIt Made Sense… Mostly In Her Mind

I’m not sure what resonates more–the mind-blowing portraits by Amy Sherald, or the inspiration behind the Georgia-born and Baltimore-based artist’s work.:

quotesThe scope of my experiences involving race materialized from my upbringing in the south. While attending private schools and being one of two or three black children, I was raised to be conscious of how I acted, spoke and dressed. This performing aspect of my identity was cultivated from the beginning of my schooling. I learned this was the key to my social acceptance and assimilation. Drawing from these experiences, I am engaging from a personal perspective with the desire to extrapolate meaning on how identity is both constructed and performed within political, social, economic and cultural spheres.” Continue Reading…

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Oscar de la Renta and Paperless Post Get Hitched + Thoughts On Elegance

 

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Oscar de la Renta is now available to (sorta) graciously announce your wedding, dinner party or girls’ night out. For a small fee, he will even say “thank you” in the ridiculously stylish way that only he can. Through Paperless Post, that is. The famed designer just released a line of wedding invitations, save-the-date cards, stationery and general entertaining invitations. I’m really stanning for Patchwork Tweed II, shown here, in blue. Kinda makes Evite look like Windows 95, huh? I took some of you, wayyy back with that one.

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Anyhoo, Paperless Post and Oscar (cause we’re on a first-name basis) will deliver your cards digitally, or print them for snail mail. Check out more of his elegant genius here.

Speaking of elegant, I can’t possibly speak of it and not share one of my fave essays of all time, On Elegance by Lauren Cerand. Seriously, I read it at least once a month, and it never ceases to inspire and d@mn near move me to tears. My favorite excerpts:

I have a theory that elegant people have an aura of impenetrable private sadness, and that good taste and impeccable manners are life’s consolation.

And:

Elegance is survival.

And finally:

Elegance is acceptance, often when all has ended in disappointment. There is always an opportunity to transcend, and move beyond, limiting circumstances. Cut your losses, mind your manners, and, if possible, leave the country.

And speaking of post, does digital stationery violate like all 2,147 of Emily Post’s rules on etiquette?

How do you feel about digital stationery? 

The Best Natural and Organic Ingredients for DIY Hair Care

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Spoiler alert: The following list of natural and organic ingredients for DIY hair care has the potential to turn you into a certified ingredients junkie. Don’t say I didn’t warn you.

Vegetable Butters for DIY Hair Care

(via Natural Beauty Workshop)

These rich, creamy butters can be used to moisturize and condition hair. They are especially effective when used in deep conditioning masks and treatments. Vegetable butters are also great for soothing dry, itchy scalps. Vegetable butters are great for use in cold processed shampoo bars too! Add one of these creamy butters to your shampoo formulations to provide extra conditioning properties.

Carrier Oils for DIY Hair Care

There are a multitude of Carrier Oils that can be beneficial to hair care, but these are the cream of the crop. Carrier oils can be used in their pure form as hair oil, or they can be worked into formulations such as pomades, conditioners, or even shampoos. Try blending several of your favorites together to create custom oil treatments, scalp massage blends, or hair serums.

Get the full scoop on herbs, extracts and more over at The Natural Beauty Workshop!

Whatever Lola Wants: iFlask

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I could have really used this flask masquerading as an iPhone in college for tailgating and Dave Matthews concerts. Nonetheless, it’s  a great way for a lady to have her libations and still look like a lady. That is, if you don’t think it’s terribly unladylike to drink from a headphone jack.

iFlask Features

  • Holds 5oz of your favorite beverage
  • Extremely discreet design
  • Polycarbonate and stainless steel frame
  • Includes a collapsible funnel

The iFlask even has a bottle opener on the back for your drinking convenience.

When I come across clever products like this, I always wonder about the motivation behind the product. According to iFlask founders:

Well first its super cool, Duh!! But it’s a great conversation starter. Its super discrete, and it will make you the talk of the town :) … The iFlask makes it just that much more nonchalant so you can walk around not looking like THAT guy. 

Or gal. Go getcha one here!

The best time to plant a tree was twenty years ago

Small_applesSmall Apples, 1984, Kristoffer Albrecht

The next best time to plant a tree is now.

I know that Chines proverb is supposed to motivate one to action, but I think it’s quite depressing. What is more dreadful than wasted time?

Although just as effective, I prefer Karen Lamb’s not so alarmist take on the same sitchy: “A year from now you may wish you had started today.

I wish I had cut out the mid-afternoon snacking a year ago. Perhaps I would feel better about the impending swimsuit season.

I could go on but it’s such a slippery slope.

What do you wish you had started a year ago? Will you start it today?

One of the Many Reasons Why I Garden

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So that I can have the privilege of throwing on my wellies, running out into the rain and snipping a few of these beauties. Nothing like it.

Blackberry Cordial Recipe That You Can Make In Your Backyard In Time For Memorial Day

blackberry cordial, how to make blackberry cordial, blackberry cordial recipeThis recipe for blackberry cordial goes out to my late Grandma Beck who, when offered tea, coca-cola or water during a visit to my in-laws, famously replied, “No, thank you. But I’ll have a scotch on the rocks.”

She was in her late eighties at the time, but had an unapologetic fondness for good liquor for as long as I could recall. I think Grandma Beck would have loved this recipe, and even the anticipation of waiting for it to mature. As a country girl through and through, she would have also loved being outside while making it.

Backyard Blackberry Cordial

Ingredients

  • 4 cups of fresh blackberries
  • 2 cups sugar (I used raw cane sugar)
  • 1 quart of vodka Continue Reading…

Postcards from Savannah, GA

visit savannah, visit georgia, savannah, savannah georgia, visit savannah georgiaOn the spur of the moment, we decided to take a quick jaunt (just four hours from Atlanta) over to Savannah. It was a total win-win—the girls got their frolic on at Tybee, and I got a total eye-full of architectural wonder in downtown historic Savannah. As with most things of beauty, the devil is in the details. Continue Reading…

What do you really want?

dreamsThis story is called The Mexican Fisherman. If it were told by a Southerner, it would be called Going Around Your @$$ to Get to Your Elbow. Either way, it’s a very poetic reminder that sometimes we work hard to get the things we already have. Enjoy!

The Mexican Fisherman

gray-quotation-marks-mdAn American investment banker was at the pier of a small coastal Mexican village when a small boat with just one fisherman docked. Inside the small boat were several large yellowfin tuna. The American complimented the Mexican on the quality of his fish and asked how long it took to catch them.

The Mexican replied, “only a little while.”

The American then asked why didn’t he stay out longer and catch more fish?

The Mexican said he had enough to support his family’s immediate needs.

The American then asked, “but what do you do with the rest of your time?”

The Mexican fisherman said, “I sleep late, fish a little, play with my children, take siestas with my wife, Maria, stroll into the village each evening where I sip wine, and play guitar with my amigos. I have a full and busy life.”

The American scoffed, “I am a Harvard MBA and could help you. You should spend more time fishing and with the proceeds, buy a bigger boat. With the proceeds from the bigger boat, you could buy several boats, eventually you would have a fleet of fishing boats. Instead of selling your catch to a middleman you would sell directly to the processor, eventually opening your own cannery. You would control the product, processing, and distribution. You would need to leave this small coastal fishing village and move to Mexico City, then LA and eventually New York City, where you will run your expanding enterprise.” Continue Reading…

Bourbon Brown Sugar Bacon + Mad Men Season 6 (proceed with caution)

bourbon brown sugar bacon, brown sugar bacon, candied baconI don’t normally recommend something that will clog your arteries, but I have a special relationship with bacon. And ya’ll know I love bourbon. That said, here’s a little breakfast treat that you can allow yourself to enjoy every blue moon. Continue Reading…

DIY Raw Oat Hand Bags + Body Bags for Cleansing

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You: Why is she pairing a cooking ingredient with a cosmetics ingredient?
LisaLise: Because these 2 work real well together in a hand and body cleansing kind of way.

You’ll need:

Thank me later.

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